How To Choose A Cremation Urn

Determine the size of the urn

A funeral home or crematorium can give you a better estimate. Cremated remains usually weigh 3–7 pounds and require about 180–220 cubic inches of capacity.

If you have decided to place the remains in a niche within a cemetery columbarium, check with the authorities there about the type and size of urn they allow.

Match the urn to the final disposition

Choose the urn based on what will happen to the ashes. If the urn will be displayed at home, look for something attractive as well as thoughtful — you will be living with it.

You might choose a nature-themed urn for someone who loved scenic beauty, or a religious, veteran, hobby, sports, infant or companion urn depending on the person.

Consider a keepsake

Families often keep a portion of the ashes after scattering the rest. A small keepsake or token urn holds that portion, and lets several relatives each keep something.

Pick a material you can live with

Cremation urns are made from wood, ceramic, granite, copper, bronze, brass, glass, porcelain and marble.

Choose the material that suits your situation. Wooden urns are not likely to last when displayed outdoors, and brass urns are not usually recommended for burial.

Set a price range

Urns come in a huge number of shapes and styles, and prices vary tremendously. Decide your budget beforehand so the choice stays manageable.

Common questions

How much do cremated remains weigh?

Usually between 3 and 7 pounds for an adult, which is why a full-size urn is around 180–220 cubic inches.

Can I put any urn in a columbarium niche?

No. Cemeteries set their own limits on urn size and material, so confirm with the cemetery office before you buy.